And people tell me I have MY hands full! Bravo TV’s new reality show 9 by Design covers a mom/dad duo design team and founders of Sixx Design that renovate homes with their signature mixture of chic and fabulous cheap all the while raising their seven (yes, s-e-v-e-n) kids… in the homes they’re renovating! Breezy Mama talked to star Cortney Novogratz on life with a full house (Wolfgang, 12; twins Tallulah and Bellamy, 10; Breaker, 8; twins Five and Holleder, 4; and Major, 14 months), design tips for kid’s rooms, and more.
Are you done having kids?
I just try and focus on today, to be honest.
Was each pregnancy different?
Each one was more exciting every time. Having the second set of twins was a shock, but we felt so fortunate because we knew it was [great] the first time around and I’m very blessed that I’m able to have children naturally, very easily. It’s just parenting – raising them is the hard part.
Do the older ones help with the younger ones?
You know, they do. Basically, the nice thing is they have each other and they also have us. So, we’re definitely part of being from a big family. My husband — also being from seven – helps. You just learn to roll with the punches.
How many are you from?
I’m from five.
Oh, so you’re both from a big family?
Yes, and that is something we were both attracted to over each other that we both wanted a large family.
Do you have any tips for decorating kid’s rooms?
Yes. You keep things for younger children low. So, if it’s a hook, you put it low. You don’t have to put it at eye level, but where they can actually hang their things. Store toys down low. And, if you have boys, have space where they can wrestle. A carpet or a rug is nice and the furniture is not too precious, but still you can have nice art in their room and expose them to things.
In my last house we had four boys in one room and this time we have two, two , two and the baby.
What was the set-up when you had four in one room?
Well, in the temporary apartment we actually had six in one room and that was two trendle beds and a set of bunk beds. When all four boys were in our last house, we had two trundle beds.
Do you feel having your kids in the same room makes them closer?
It does make them closer. And the nice thing is that you don’t want to give your kids too much. For example, my oldest son, even though he didn’t sign up to be the oldest of seven kids, he’s part of a team. He’s part of the family and he needs to realize that along with everyone else. And it’s a fine balance of letting them do a lot of things that isn’t slowing them down, but also making them aware that they’re a part of a big family and this unique team.
I have three kids and moved recently and someone said to me, ‘Wherever the family is, that’s home.’
We went to a two bedroom apartment for three months when I actually had my seventh child and I always think sometimes less is best. And there’s a moment when there should be closeness and it doesn’t matter where they are, if you’ve got four walls and all of you together – it didn’t even register to our kids that they were moving from one big space to a small space. They were more excited about, “Oh we get to pick out bunk beds! And stay up and hold the baby at night!” And it was winter and it was cozy. We played a lot of Game Box and Wii, I admit [both laugh], there wasn’t a lot of space to run around, but it worked out. You can do anything if you’re all together.
Do any of them have an eye for design?
Two of them really enjoy working with us and moving furniture, but who knows what the future holds.
And the oldest is 11?
The oldest is 12. He’s in 6th grade, in middle school.
So is he excited to be on TV?
Interestingly, our fourth child loved it. He really loved it. And some surprised us. Of course we sat down with them before we filmed and we told them we’re doing this show and some had a little anxiety and the very next day we started to film and they were the ones front and center! We just think, no matter what, we went through this all together. Of course the baby and the little ones are wondering what’s going on. But we’re open people in general.
We saw in a clip that you were interviewing a nanny. Do you really have just one nanny?
I have two nannys. This last one I definitely needed more help because we were doing the show and I always needed someone home with the baby. We constantly change what our needs are from time to time.
I felt like each of my pregnancies went faster than the first. Did you feel that way about yours – especially the last one?
Yeah, but because you’re also running after the other kids. I really don’t slow down during my pregnancies. I have close friends that have to go to bed [early when pregnant]. I was still able to be there for the other kids because I was still doing things that you normally do.
Was it hard to come up with a 7th name?
Well, we thought it was going to be a girl — I don’t know why — so we had Liberty Grace picked out which would have been kind of cool because he was born on Inauguration Day, but we had a million names. His father was a Major and always went by Major Robert so we went with Major. Each name has a meaning at some point with what we’re going through at the time.
I just can’t imagine naming 7 kids!
Well, if you pick crazy names, it doesn’t really matter [both laugh]. Maybe that’s why one of them is named Five, because we were going for the fifth kid and we kept saying, “Number 5! Number 5!” We chanted that for six months.
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